Showing posts with label Sin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sin. Show all posts

Monday, December 26, 2011

Five Worldly and Otherworldly Consequences of Adultery


Most of us are already (and hopefully) aware of the horrendous religious consequences of committing adultery / zina. Most of us already know that it is considered amongst the worst of sins, and thus, we are aware that we should constantly remain vigilant to stay away from anything that may put us on the path to adultery.  It is necessary to point out that adultery is not merely having intercourse with a man or a woman, outside of marriage, when you are married.  Any form of lustful or sexual deed that falls outside of what is religiously permitted, is considered zina / adultery, including masturbation.  Keeping this in mind, we should be very attentive about staying away from zina / adultery.  

Since most of us are already informed about the sinful aspect of adultery, in this post, I would like to bring our attention to it from a different perspective, namely from the cause-and-effect or physical perspective.

Unfortunately, there is this prevailing idea amongst too many religious people that sins are harmful only in the spiritual realm (whatever that may be in their minds) and only injurious to our souls (however they may understand the soul.)

For this reason, they may be more careless about keeping away from sins.  After all, unfortunately, more people seem to care more about what is immediately physically evident than what is not immediately physically noticeable. For this reason, the idea that the harm of a deed may not even be physical may make many religious people more negligent of the harmful consequences of that deed.

In this post, via two traditions, one Reliable and one Good, I would like to highlight that adultery has physical, and not just spiritual, consequences.

Following the traditions below I will make a couple of points regarding the second tradition.

9) Good
Arabic Text:

عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ حَمَّادِ بْنِ عِيسَى عَنْ حَرِيزِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ عَنِ الْفُضَيْلِ عَنْ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ ع قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ص فِي الزِّنَا خَمْسُ خِصَالٍ يَذْهَبُ بِمَاءِ الْوَجْهِ وَ يُورِثُ الْفَقْرَ وَ يَنْقُصُ الْعُمُرَ وَ يُسْخِطُ الرَّحْمَنَ وَ يُخَلِّدُ فِي النَّارِ نَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ النَّارِ

English Translation:

Narrated by Ali Ibn Ibrahim from his father from Hamad Ibn Eissa from Huraiz Ibn Abdullah from Al-Fadil from Abu Ja’far (peace be upon him) who said:

The prophet (peace be upon him) said, “In adultery there are five qualities. It causes the loss of countenance [face], it bequeaths poverty, shortens life, arouses the indignation of the All-Beneficent and [he who commits it] remains in hellfire; may Allah spare us from hellfire.”

8) Reliable
Arabic Text:

مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ فَضَّالٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَيْمُونٍ الْقَدَّاحِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ قَالَ يَعْقُوبُ لِابْنِهِ يَا بُنَيَّ لَا تَزْنِ فَإِنَّ الطَّائِرَ لَوْ زَنَى لَتَنَاثَرَ رِيشُهُ

English Translation:

Narrated by Mohamed Ibn Yehya from Ahmed Ibn Mohamed from Ibn Faddal from Abdullah Ibn Maymoun Al-Quaddah from Abu Abdullah (peace be upon him) who said:
Jacob (peace be upon him) said to his son, ‘My son, commit not adultery for if even a bird commits adultery its feathers become scattered.’”


The latter tradition is very significant, though its significance may not be readily noticed.  In the latter tradition, it is vividly stated that even birds (or animals), who are beyond the realm of spiritual, who are not judged for their deeds in the hereafter, cannot escape the effects of adultery.  Thus, this tradition, very clearly, highlights the physical and worldly effects of adultery / zina. 

Another acute element that stands out in this tradition is the connection that is made between a sin and animals.  This connection should provoke us to re-examine our understanding of the concept of sins.  If animals could be said to be involved in sins, then what exactly are sins?  If animals cannot sin, then why use what is impossible to occur in a moral lesson? 


Source:
Al-Kafi, Volume 5, Page 542, Traditions #8, #9

Sunday, December 18, 2011

The Significance of Having Good Manners


At times I see some of our youths, who seem to be quite careless about their manners, yet are steadfast when it comes to their prayers and fasts. When I see such individuals, it makes me wonder, why they are very careful about their fasts and prayers, yet so negligent of their manners and behaviour.

            Perhaps, one answer is that they are unaware about the significance of good manners in the teachings of Ahlul Bayt, peace be upon them.

            Therefore, this post is mainly a quick reminder to our youths or whoever else, who claim to be the followers of Ahlul Bayt, peace be upon them, yet are very inattentive to their manners. We need to keep in mind, our manners, not only affect ourselves, but affect the land, too.

There are nine acceptable traditions in this post, five of them are Authentic and four of them are Good.

Note: If you would like to have the Farsi translation for any of the following traditions, please send me a message.

Arabic Text:

(1
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عِيسَى عَنِ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ مَحْبُوبٍ عَنْ جَمِيلِ بْنِ دَرَّاجٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ ع قَالَ إِنَّ أَكْمَلَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَاناً أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقاً

(3
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ مَحْبُوبٍ عَنْ أَبِي وَلَّادٍ الْحَنَّاطِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ أَرْبَعٌ مَنْ كُنَّ فِيهِ كَمَلَ إِيمَانُهُ وَ إِنْ كَانَ مِنْ قَرْنِهِ إِلَى قَدَمِهِ ذُنُوباً لَمْ يَنْقُصْهُ ذَلِكَ قَالَ وَ هُوَ الصِّدْقُ وَ أَدَاءُ الْأَمَانَةِ وَ الْحَيَاءُ وَ حُسْنُ الْخُلُقِ

(4
عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ مَحْبُوبٍ عَنْ عَنْبَسَةَ الْعَابِدِ قَالَ قَالَ لِي أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع مَا يَقْدَمُ الْمُؤْمِنُ عَلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ بِعَمَلٍ بَعْدَ الْفَرَائِضِ أَحَبَّ إِلَى اللَّهِ تَعَالَى مِنْ أَنْ يَسَعَ النَّاسَ بِخُلُقِهِ

(5
أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الْأَشْعَرِيُّ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ عَنْ صَفْوَانَ عَنْ ذَرِيحٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص إِنَّ صَاحِبَ الْخُلُقِ الْحَسَنِ لَهُ مِثْلُ أَجْرِ الصَّائِمِ الْقَائِمِ

(7
عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ حُسَيْنٍ الْأَحْمَسِيِّ وَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ إِنَّ الْخُلُقَ الْحَسَنَ يَمِيثُ الْخَطِيئَةَ كَمَا تَمِيثُ الشَّمْسُ الْجَلِيدَ

(8
عَنْهُ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ الْبِرُّ وَ حُسْنُ الْخُلُقِ يَعْمُرَانِ الدِّيَارَ وَ يَزِيدَانِ فِي الْأَعْمَارِ

(10
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عِيسَى عَنِ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ الْوَشَّاءِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ هَلَكَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى عَهْدِ النَّبِيِّ ص فَأَتَى الْحَفَّارِينَ فَإِذَا بِهِمْ لَمْ يَحْفِرُوا شَيْئاً وَ شَكَوْا ذَلِكَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ص فَقَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا يَعْمَلُ حَدِيدُنَا فِي الْأَرْضِ فَكَأَنَّمَا نَضْرِبُ بِهِ فِي الصَّفَا فَقَالَ وَ لِمَ إِنْ كَانَ صَاحِبُكُمْ لَحَسَنَ الْخُلُقِ ائْتُونِي بِقَدَحٍ مِنْ مَاءٍ فَأَتَوْهُ بِهِ فَأَدْخَلَ يَدَهُ فِيهِ ثُمَّ رَشَّهُ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ رَشّاً ثُمَّ قَالَ احْفِرُوا قَالَ فَحَفَرَ الْحَفَّارُونَ فَكَأَنَّمَا كَانَ رَمْلًا يَتَهَايَلُ عَلَيْهِمْ

(16
عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ حَبِيبٍ الْخَثْعَمِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص أَفَاضِلُكُمْ أَحْسَنُكُمْ أَخْلَاقاً الْمُوَطَّئُونَ أَكْنَافاً الَّذِينَ يَأْلَفُونَ وَ يُؤْلَفُونَ وَ تُوَطَّأُ رِحَالُهُمْ

(18
عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ إِنَّ حُسْنَ الْخُلُقِ يَبْلُغُ بِصَاحِبِهِ دَرَجَةَ الصَّائِمِ الْقَائِمِ

English Translation:

1) Authentic
Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad ibn Isa fromal-Hassan ibn Mahbub from Jamil ibn Salih from Muhammad ibn Muslim from abu Ja’far, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“Among the believers of perfect belief is one whose manners are good.”
  

3) Authentic
Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from ibnMahbub from abu Wallad al-Hannat from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“Whoever has four things, his belief is complete even if he is covered with sins from his top to his toes, and it will not harm him. They are truthfulness, safe return of the trust, shyness [or shame] and good manners.”
 

4)  Authentic
A number of our people have narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad ibn Khalidfrom ibn Mahbub from ‘Anbasa al-‘Abid who has said the following:
“Abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, once said to me,
‘No believer comes before Allah, the Most Majestic, the Most Holy, with better deeds, aside from the obligatory ones, more beloved to Allah, the Most High, than one with good manners that has room for all people in it.’”


5)  Authentic
Abu Ali al-Ash’ari has narrated from Muhammad ibn ‘Abd al-Jabbar from Safwan from Dharih from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“The Messenger of Allah has said, ‘The reward for one who possesses good manners is equal to the reward for one who fasts [all days] and prays [all nights].”


7) Good
 Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Husaynal-Ahmasi and ‘Abd Allah ibn Sinan from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Good manners melt down sins just as the sun melts down hoarfrost.”


8) Good
It is narrated from him (narrator of the Hadith above) from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from ‘Abd Allah ibn Sinan from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“Virtuous deeds and good manners develop cities and add to longevity of life.”


10) Authentic
Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad ibn ‘Isa fromal-Hassan ibn Ali al-Washsha’ from ‘Abd Allah ibn Sinan from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“During the time of the Holy Prophet a man died. The grave diggers could not dig a grave for him. They complained to the Messenger of Allah saying,
‘O Messenger of Allah, our shovels [literally “iron”] do not work. It is as if we hit a rock.’
The Messenger of Allah said, ‘It would not be as such had your man have good manners. Bring to me a bowl of water.’
When water was brought, he (the Messenger of Allah), peace be upon him, immersed his hand into it and then sprinkled it on the ground. He then told them to dig. They began to dig and it was like sand falling fast upon them.”


16) Good
Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Habib al-Khath’ami from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“The Messenger of Allah has said,
‘The best ones among you are those who possess good manners, who are easy to associate with, associate others with ease and comfort others.’”


18) Good
Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from ‘Abd Allah ibn Sinan from abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who has said the following:
“Good manners take one to the level of those who fast [all day] and pray [all night].”


Source:
Al-Kafi, Volume 2, Pages 99-103, Traditions #1, #3, #4, #5, #7, #8, #10, #16, #18